In my capacity as a student minister, I was in some unique situations.
Then again, I've had some singular opportunities most of my life.
I was in a position to listen to confessions. Not like our friends in RCC etc, but nonetheless I counseled and above all listened.
This included several pastors and church workers.
I was trustworthy and some of them needed to go 'outside' official function. Not sure what that says about the organization. At any rate, I listened and counseled including up into my clinical psych education.
Of course, I'm not revealing anything. I will take what I heard when I cross over.
I don't dwell on all that. It just crosses my mind now and then. And it gives me a chance to reflect on that period.
I listened and we prayed for healing and well being. It was rather like a point of contact and we knew God ultimately listened. But as we are in this world together, it is well for us to share.
It was initially startling that established folks poured out their souls to me. Then I realized it was simply part of my calling/service.
Lending an ear, no excuses and a chance to think were shared.
I hope all are well who are still here. Several have gone to spirit.
I never let a cat out of a bag. Confession, even this type, is/was sacrosanct.
We worked through several issues and there were of course referrals.
We are all in this together. All our yesterdays coalesce.
Sometimes working/thinking outside the box has its value
I thank God I was there for them.