Magnet Of Failure

 Beaten down, some resort to fatalism.

They give up and let the winds of fate batter them.  

Or, they might over compensate.

Some resort to abuse to lash out.  It's an infection that might spread.  I know several like this.  Conditioning.

Others 1 up or end run to make up for feelings of inadequacy. They must over compensate to assuage feelings of inferiority.   

Many suffer from over  and under personality disorders.  Inferiority and superiority complexes come to mind.

Research them.  They are worthy of papers (of which I have written some) and even books.  

So, come to grips.  Maybe hit bottom whatever that might be.  

Demagnetize negative attractions.  

Do not revel in failure.  

Like attracts like.

Let it be Light.