I've had a variety of jobs in my travels. Whatever the conditions I never had a hand out, just ready. It has given me perspective about myself and others and texture where there might have been flatness.
Beyond my college background in clinical psych, I've always been interested in people. I guess 'people watcher' sizes me up. As Antony said 'note the qualities of people'.
I generally accept others as they are, no matter what, save for the darksiders. Even then, they are what/who they are, though there is no camaraderie -s-.
Just on a social level, I've experienced some shifts in attitude. Let me explain.
I had a temp job as a sexton at a particular church in a well to do area, not far from where I was raised.
I was treated well enough by the staff, more or less, though there was a trifle bit of surprise at my education level and the way I comported myself.
We were setting up for a big Christmas shindig and it was my turn to be surprised.
I was chatting with a woman I think was on the committee. There is always a committee lol.
It was merely chit chat with no heavy emphasis.
Her hubby took offense at this. He remonstrated me to tend to my job. OK. Guess I didn't 'know my place'. Supposed Christians acting in this manner is nothing new. Sad.
One should treat others well just because it's the right thing to do. It could be angels unaware or some other factor, but the bottom line it is a way of life.
One other small one.
I partially house painted my way through college. I was working on a house which was to be a wedding gift for a woman's son; a first home.
The son pulled up one day and chatted.
He showed some surprise when he found out my background.
Never take anything nor anyone for granted.
Why I can talk to homeless or presidents -s-.
Some are gifted with something. Or they are given an opportunity.
Live and learn.