Blame

It's point the finger.

It's 'No you didn't.'.

It's 'I didn't do it (whiny voice)'.

It's disfunctionality at its finest.

The antithesis of responsibility, I bet everyone knows someone who blames others. At least one. Sometimes, whole families.

I've been awash in a sea of people who play a 'ring around the rosy' of blame. And they try to control due to a lack of self.

They have lost their way.

Will they ever find it? Maybe.

My suggestion is not to play doctor to such people.

Misery loves company.

They will try to pull you down with them.

Some realize it and don't care. Some are blind and deaf to anything but their own misery. Some realize it and relish dominance. Better to rule than be ruled -s-.

And they just might make you the scapegoat.

What you can do is not buy into it in any way. Suggest they get help. Possibly assist in finding that help. Pray. But DO NOT play their game.

Someone told me he'd rather fellate a hot rail spike than keep enmeshed in such mentally ill shenanigans -s-. Graphic yes but I agree.

Love comes into this almost always.

Divorce yourself from the problem and care about the person who is afflicted.

Sometimes that means being apart.

Each person must find a way.

To truly be independent is to find one's own path and then perhaps converge when one is sure that the sick person is better.

As for those who exhibit pathology in terms of trying to 'destroy' 2A, they must be countered.

They seek to point blame on decent honest people. They are sick, so we must all be sick.

Enough.

Look them in the eye and say no.

Make them take responsibility for themselves.

It's too easy to point the finger.

The worst fear is looking at ourselves.

Start the day doing so and beat the monsters.

Put blame where it should be, not where it's convenient.